INDONESIAKININEWS.COM - I've thought a lot about how to love and care for the lady who is now in my life — lessons learned from experie...
For my marriage, it may have been too late; but for this relationship, it is not.
Mistakes and failures are essential for growth, development, and comprehension and relationships might be better understood if you've had bad experiences in the past.
Instead of making these mistakes and having to learn for yourself, learn the lessons I learned a little too late.
Here are 8 everyday ways women want to be shown love
1. Consistently make time for her
When you make her a priority in your life, you will make time. When we're dating, I've seen a lot of guys that make a lot of time to spend time with the women they like, but not after they're officially together.
It's just as essential to make time for the lady in your life as everything else. Please don't make it a family affair; make it a time for her to relax and have fun with you.
A woman's sense of importance, her feeling of being cared-for and loved is enhanced when she has time to spend with you. She won't feel taken for granted if you keep dating and wooing her.
2. Show your gratitude
Most women go out of their way to nurture, care for, and serve the people in their lives, but there is a great deal of indifference toward their efforts.
Even a simple expression of gratitude for everything she has done for you may profoundly impact her outlook on life.
3. Accept her for who she is
Instead of pointing out her imperfections, praise her for who she is when she is at her best.
To love a woman, you don't have to alter her or wish she were someone else. No need to tell her she's inadequate or doesn't measure up.
Throughout the ages, society has worked tirelessly to create an "ideal" shape for all women.
A woman's life is dictated by society; she's told what to eat, how she should appear, and how she should dress. No need to do anything because of what you see on the news, in media, or in popular culture.
4. Give up on trying to change her
Accepting her is a step in the same direction as learning to let go of attempting to alter her. If you want a woman to behave in a specific manner, you can't expect or insist that she do so.
You can't alter a woman's nature. Compassion, understanding, and kindness are the most acceptable ways to assist a woman in achieving her best self.
Instead of trying to make her into someone she's not, focus on improving yourself so that you can be the best person you can be for her. Work on your development and learn to let go of the need to alter her.
5. Nurture compassion
Compassion and empathy for what she's going through are essential to loving her.
Compassion implies being able to relate to and empathize with what she is going through daily. Becoming empathic and forgiving is one of the most important things you can do to show compassion.
What matters is that you don't always have to be correct. It's allowing her to carry out her plans as she sees fit.
To feel empathy, you must put yourself in her shoes. Compassion is looking at things from her point of view and attempting to understand them.
Compassion is being there for her or thinking of her while going through a difficult time in her life. Compassion may be as simple as making room for her or just hugging her close to ease her pain and suffering.
6. Listen attentively
For many women, talking is a means of self-expression, sharing, and even falling in love with another person. This is much more true for women than for men, in my experience.
We may show our love for them by listening to them without attempting to repair, assist, or troubleshoot them, which is a simple method. Listening without judgments or offering suggestions makes others feel seen and heard.
In our culture, people tend to want to reply, repair something, or provide advice in every interaction. Instead of criticizing a woman for being who she is, try listening to her with empathy so that she may share her thoughts and feelings.
7. Be open and vulnerable
When you express your thoughts and emotions, both good and bad, with a woman, you make her feel cherished. They want to know about your struggles and difficulties.
They want to be there for you just as much as you want them to be there for her. To the woman in your life, it's an opportunity to soothe, nourish, and adore her.
8. Commit to improving your relationship
The most significant thing you can do for her is be the best version of yourself. Develop your skills and knowledge by learning new things. Eliminate negative behaviors and increase your emotional fortitude while decreasing your emotional overreactions.
Even if you spend a lot of time working on your personal growth, you should equally focus on improving your skills as a romantic partner.
Learn how to be a better partner by reading books on becoming a better man, attending courses on the subject, and seeking therapy if you believe it will assist you in overcoming negative habits and tendencies in your life.
Women get the rewards of a better you when they sincerely try to become a better version of themselves. It's a significant gain for her when you heal your emotional scars, become a better listener, and become more present in your life.
Small gestures of kindness go a long way
Fancy vacations and dramatic vows of love don't seem to impress most ladies.
Small, ordinary acts of attention and care appear to mean more than heroic deeds and significant gestures.
You may demonstrate affection for her in various ways, from making her life a little simpler to anticipating what she might need.
Make a conscious effort to make a difference in her life by doing little things like putting your clothes away or washing your dishes.
Tell her thank you, listen empathetically and show up where and when you're supposed to be. These little things mean the world.
Source: yourtango
